Wednesday, 25. April 2007
How to Get a Decent Husband
American college girls did, and no doubt do, play down their intelligence, skills, and determinativeness when in the presence of datable boys, thereby manifesting a profound psychic discipline in spite of their international reputation for flightiness. These performers are reported to allow their boy friends to explain things to them tediously that they already know [...]
' One of the nicest techniques is to spell long words incorrectly once in a while. My boy friend seems to get a great kick out of it and writes back, 'Honey, you certainly don't know how to spell.'"
Through all of this the natural superiority of the male is demonstrated, and the weaker role of the female affirmed.
-- Goffman, Erving (1959). The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life. New York: Anchor Books, 53.